Come Closer
There is something delicious about not knowing what waits on the other side of an invitation.
FemDom Blog NYC
Journal
NYC Dominatrix Viktoria Sway on BDSM activities, power exchange, and what happens in a FemDom session in NYC.
Desire and Longing, Part Two: Playing With Wanting
What happens when we feel, chase, suppress, or experience desire inside a BDSM scene.
Beyond the Rope
Is it the rope you want, or the moment you no longer get to decide what happens next?
Make You Wait
What happens when you’re made to feel your wanting?
The Easy Part
You know you like impact. Good.
Knowing Your Kinks Isn't the Same as Knowing What You Want
You know the activities you like. Do you know what you actually want them to feel like?
Before Anything Happens
Wanting has its own gravity
Desire Under Study
What happens when you want something you are not allowed to have?
Desire and Longing: A Dominant’s Psychological Tools
Desire points at something specific. Longing carries a distance in it. What a dominant can do with each one, and why the same activity means different things to different people.
The Enchantress in Shadow
he still thinks it was his idea
Under the Desk
taking applications for a foot rest
Light and Shadow in Every Mistress Archetype
The same act can mean completely different things depending on who is behind it. Archetypes in light and shadow, and how to read which ones pull at you.
BDSM Intimacy Destroyer: The Near Enemy
Chaos reigns in our shadow selves; the more we know and integrate this part of us, the more personal power we have to choose our responses in every aspect of our life.
Fetish Play or BDSM?
The educated connoisseur knows the difference. Fetish, kink, and the four BDSM categories, with tools to make sure your needs are met.