What happens when you’re made to feel your wanting?
You ask me for touch.
I come close enough that you think I am finally going to give it to you. Then I don’t.
Waiting changes the request. Maybe you ask again. Maybe you stop asking and simply watch me.
The touch itself has not changed, but what it means might. Sometimes withholding is not about denial. It is how I find out what the wanting is carrying.
Read the article: Desire and Longing: A Dominant’s Psychological Tools