Viktoria Sway teaches BDSM classes and workshops in NYC

BDSM Classes in NYC

Play Bold, Explore Deep, Discover Yourself

Step to the edge of your desires with my NYC BDSM classes and workshops. Whether you’re curious or experienced, my sessions guide you to explore kink safely, push boundaries consciously, and uncover hidden parts of yourself. Learn, play, and transform in a space designed for fearless self-discovery.

Discover My BDSM Classes - NYC and More

2026 Classes

 In 2026, I’ll be offering a series of classes and live containers for people who want more than just scenes — you want to understand your desire, your wiring, and your patterns in a deeper, more embodied way.

Some offerings will be NYC in-person, and key classes will also have online versions so you can join from anywhere.

 

Discover Your BDSM Blueprint

Leave knowing your turn-ons, your dynamic—and how to make it electric.
Walk out with your BDSM Blueprint: a one-page map of what creates chemistry for you—and a simple plan to make it real.

Wake the Erotic Animal
Reconnect with your desire, appetite, and aliveness without shame. This class is about remembering that your erotic energy is not a problem to fix, but a source of power and intelligence to work with.

FemDom Foundations
What FemDom actually is (beyond porn), why it works the way it does, core archetypes, and “where do I fit in this world?” Learn how to shape dynamics and scenes that make you genuinely melt instead of just going through the motions.

EdgePlay: Why Our Dirtiest, Scariest Thoughts Excite Us So Much
A guided dive into taboo and edgeplay: why those “too much” fantasies show up, what they’re doing for your psyche and nervous system, and how to approach them in ways that are hot, ethical, and actually resourcing instead of retraumatizing.

Kinky Chemistry
Explore archetypes, erotic tension, and polarity. Learn how to become the kind of partner people love to play with — whether you lean dominant, submissive, or switch — by understanding the underlying dynamics instead of just copying scripts.

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NYC BDSM & Kinky Classes and Workshops

About Goddess Viktoria

I’m a Professional Dominatrix with over 10 years of experience guiding participants through BDSM and kinky exploration. Holding a degree in psychology and grounded in practical Buddhist studies and somatic processing, I combine deep insight into human behavior with hands-on experience. My workshops and classes in NYC are designed to help you explore desire safely, build confidence, and connect with your authentic self. With 12 years of corporate experience in medical sales, I bring professionalism, structure, and clarity to every session, ensuring a transformative and empowering experience for all participants.

BDSM Classes in NYC

BDSM Class 1: NYC Manhattan

Wake The Erotic Animal

Scene Openings & the Sizzle

Get the juice you crave in your kink scenes.

Thursday, Sept. 25 - 2025 7-9PM

Taboo: the workshop

BDSM Class 4: NYC Manhattan

Taboo: The Workshop

Decode the Dark & Play the Edge.

Feel Your Darkness Before You Fuck With It

Sunday, Sept. 28 - 2025 2-5 PM

nyc dominatrix viktoria sway

Intro Class

Discover Your BDSM Blueprint

Leave knowing your turn-ons, your dynamic—and how to make it electric.

Walk out with your BDSM Blueprint: a one-page map of what creates chemistry for you—and a simple plan to make it real.

Tuesday, March 3rd - 2026 7:00- 9:00 PM

Intro Class: NYC Location & Online

Discover Your BDSM Blueprint

Leave knowing your turn-ons, your dynamic—and how to make it electric.

Walk out with your BDSM Blueprint: a one-page map of what creates chemistry for you—and a simple plan to make it real.

March 3rd 7;00- 9:00PM EST

Stop guessing. Discover Your BDSM Blueprint is a consent-forward workshop designed to help you get clear on what actually turns you on, what kind of power dynamic fits you, and what creates real chemistry for you—not just in theory, but in practice. Whether you’re curious, returning to kink after a break, or already experienced and want more precision, this class gives you a psychologically grounded map for finding your erotic wiring—what reliably sparks charge for you.

You’ll build a one-page BDSM Blueprint—your personal ingredients for chemistry—and translate it into a starter scene plan you can realistically try. You’ll also leave with simple words you can use to ask for what you want, so your desires don’t stay stuck in your head. Come solo or with a partner; you’ll be guided to reflect privately and only share what feels comfortable. Clear, practical, and hot in a way you can actually use.

What's your flavor of Power?

Class 3: NYC Location

Kinky Chemistry: How to Make Desire Spark, Burn, and Stay

Eros in Tension: How Kink Awakens Polarity Beyond Gender

TBD

What if erotic polarity isn’t about fixed roles—but about the dynamic tension between presence and surrender, structure and expression?

This class explores how kink creates a sacred container to play with masculine and feminine energies—without assigning them to gender or locking them into dominance or submission. You’ll learn how polarity becomes felt, not performed: how it moves through your body, your desires, and your relational dynamics. Whether you tend toward leading or yielding, craving or commanding, this is an invitation to discover new dimensions of your erotic self.

Perfect for anyone curious about deepening intimacy, conscious power exchange, and embodied desire—beyond binaries, beyond scripts.

Discover the Power in the pull between

Class 2: NYC Location

The Hidden Logic of Desire: Learn Why You Keep Craving What Hurts So Good

Desire is trying to tell you something. This time, you’re going to hear it.

TBD

Why do we repeat patterns that ultimately wound us? Why do we unconsciously sabotage what we want most? This immersive workshop unpacks the deeper logic behind your most confusing erotic and BDSM patterns—revealing how shame, resistance, fantasy, and pain often carry the raw material of your deepest desires.

Through somatic ritual, guided breathwork, kink-inspired movement, and shadow integration, you’ll learn to stop fighting your desires and start listening to them. Not to perform or fix yourself—but to feel more, want more honestly, and reclaim the parts of you that still ache to be loved.

Come curious. Come messy. Come as you are.

Class 3: NYC Location

Kinky Chemistry: How to Make Desire Spark, Burn, and Stay

Eros in Tension: How Kink Awakens Polarity Beyond Gender

TBD

What if erotic polarity isn’t about fixed roles—but about the dynamic tension between presence and surrender, structure and expression?

This class explores how kink creates a sacred container to play with masculine and feminine energies—without assigning them to gender or locking them into dominance or submission. You’ll learn how polarity becomes felt, not performed: how it moves through your body, your desires, and your relational dynamics. Whether you tend toward leading or yielding, craving or commanding, this is an invitation to discover new dimensions of your erotic self.

Perfect for anyone curious about deepening intimacy, conscious power exchange, and embodied desire—beyond binaries, beyond scripts.

Discover the Power in the pull between

BDSM Class 4: NYC Location

Taboo: The Workshop

Decode the Dark & Play the Edge.

Sunday, Sept. 28 - 2025 2-5 PM

Class 5: NYC Location

Taboo Part 2: Explore your Nasty

Listening to your deeper taboo desires

TBD

What if your most taboo desires held the key to your healing and truth? This class helps you explore your unique erotic wiring, uncover hidden emotional patterns, and embrace the full spectrum of what makes you feel deeply alive.

Come curious. Come messy. Come as you are.

Class 6: NYC Location

Put Your Dark Gold to Work (Scene Integration)

 Turning insight into erotic practice

TBD

Must have completed class 1-6 
Learn how to bring your emotional truth into the design of conscious BDSM scenes. We’ll explore how to co-create scenes that are playful, powerful, and deeply nourishing—based on your longings, limits, and gifts.

Class 7: NYC Location

Pillars of BDSM Play — Humiliation, Control, Pain, Archetypes

Learn How to Play with the Personalites of Kink in a way the explores your unique blueprint

TBD

Why do we repeat patterns that ultimately wound us? Why do we unconsciously sabotage what we want most? This immersive workshop unpacks the deeper logic behind your most confusing erotic and BDSM patterns—revealing how shame, resistance, fantasy, and pain often carry the raw material of your deepest desires.

Through somatic ritual, guided breathwork, kink-inspired movement, and shadow integration, you’ll learn to stop fighting your desires and start listening to them. Not to perform or fix yourself—but to feel more, want more honestly, and reclaim the parts of you that still ache to be loved.

Come curious. Come messy. Come as you are.

Class 9: NYC Location

Eros and Kink in Everyday Life

Living your erotic truth

TBD

This closing class helps you bring the wisdom of your erotic journey into all areas of your life. From relationships to creativity to daily presence, you’ll learn to stay connected to eros as a compass for living fully and authentically.

Join Our Inclusive Kink Community

In Viktoria Sway’s BDSM classes, you’re more than a student. You’ll connect with a community of fellow kinksters who share your interests. Exchange stories, gain knowledge, and support one another in an environment that embraces curiosity and diversity in the BDSM lifestyle. Join us to get up to date releases of new classes and workshops as they are added. 

FAQ

Your Questions Answered

Understanding BDSM can be both exciting and a bit overwhelming. To help you navigate this journey, we’ve gathered a set of FAQs covering our classes, safety tips, and what to expect. Whether you’re just starting out or want to learn more, our resources are here for you.

What should I wear to class?

Wear something comfortable that lets you move freely and shows off your style. It’s a great chance to embrace your kink vibes!

Are classes suitable for beginners?

Yes! Our classes are welcoming to everyone, no matter your experience level. It’s never too early or late to start exploring BDSM.

How do I ensure a safe experience?

Safety is essential. Our workshops focus on clear communication, understanding risks, and setting boundaries. Together, we create a safe environment for exploration.

Can I bring a partner to class?

Sure! We welcome partners or friends. Just let us know ahead of time if you’re coming as a duo, and we’ll customize your experience.

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