BDSM Classes in NYC

Play Bold, Explore Deep, Discover Yourself

Step to the edge of your desires with my NYC BDSM classes and workshops. Whether you’re curious or experienced, my sessions guide you to explore kink safely, push boundaries consciously, and uncover hidden parts of yourself. Learn, play, and transform in a space designed for fearless self-discovery.

Viktoria Sway teaches BDSM classes and workshops in NYC

NYC BDSM & Kinky Classes and Workshops

About Goddess Viktoria

I’m a Professional Dominatrix with over 10 years of experience guiding participants through BDSM and kinky exploration. Holding a degree in psychology and grounded in practical Buddhist studies and somatic processing, I combine deep insight into human behavior with hands-on experience. My workshops and classes in NYC are designed to help you explore desire safely, build confidence, and connect with your authentic self. With 12 years of corporate experience in medical sales, I bring professionalism, structure, and clarity to every session, ensuring a transformative and empowering experience for all participants.

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Join me for a variety of engaging classes tailored for all skill levels.

My classes are designed as a progression—from awakening your awareness and connecting with your authentic desires, to exploring the full spectrum of BDSM practices and embracing the parts of yourself that are often left unspoken or unexplored. They  may be taken in any order unless specified. 

Join me for a variety of engaging classes tailored for all skill levels.

My classes are designed as a progression—from awakening your awareness and connecting with your authentic desires, to exploring the full spectrum of BDSM practices and embracing the parts of yourself that are often left unspoken or unexplored. They  may be taken in any order unless specified. 

BDSM Classes in NYC

BDSM Class 1: NYC Manhattan

Wake The Erotic Animal

Scene Openings & the Sizzle

Get the juice you crave in your kink scenes.

Thursday, Sept. 25 - 2025 7-9PM

Taboo: the workshop

BDSM Class 4: NYC Manhattan

Taboo: The Workshop

Decode the Dark & Play the Edge.

Feel Your Darkness Before You Fuck With It

Sunday, Sept. 28 - 2025 2-5 PM

Class 2: NYC Location

The Hidden Logic of Desire: Learn Why You Keep Craving What Hurts So Good

Desire is trying to tell you something. This time, you’re going to hear it.

TBD

Why do we repeat patterns that ultimately wound us? Why do we unconsciously sabotage what we want most? This immersive workshop unpacks the deeper logic behind your most confusing erotic and BDSM patterns—revealing how shame, resistance, fantasy, and pain often carry the raw material of your deepest desires.

Through somatic ritual, guided breathwork, kink-inspired movement, and shadow integration, you’ll learn to stop fighting your desires and start listening to them. Not to perform or fix yourself—but to feel more, want more honestly, and reclaim the parts of you that still ache to be loved.

Come curious. Come messy. Come as you are.

Class 3: NYC Location

Kinky Chemistry: How to Make Desire Spark, Burn, and Stay

Eros in Tension: How Kink Awakens Polarity Beyond Gender

TBD

What if erotic polarity isn’t about fixed roles—but about the dynamic tension between presence and surrender, structure and expression?

This class explores how kink creates a sacred container to play with masculine and feminine energies—without assigning them to gender or locking them into dominance or submission. You’ll learn how polarity becomes felt, not performed: how it moves through your body, your desires, and your relational dynamics. Whether you tend toward leading or yielding, craving or commanding, this is an invitation to discover new dimensions of your erotic self.

Perfect for anyone curious about deepening intimacy, conscious power exchange, and embodied desire—beyond binaries, beyond scripts.

Discover the Power in the pull between

BDSM Class 4: NYC Location

Taboo: The Workshop

Decode the Dark & Play the Edge.

Sunday, Sept. 28 - 2025 2-5 PM

Class 5: NYC Location

Taboo Part 2: Explore your Nasty

Listening to your deeper taboo desires

TBD

What if your most taboo desires held the key to your healing and truth? This class helps you explore your unique erotic wiring, uncover hidden emotional patterns, and embrace the full spectrum of what makes you feel deeply alive.

Come curious. Come messy. Come as you are.

Class 6: NYC Location

Put Your Dark Gold to Work (Scene Integration)

 Turning insight into erotic practice

TBD

Must have completed class 1-6 
Learn how to bring your emotional truth into the design of conscious BDSM scenes. We’ll explore how to co-create scenes that are playful, powerful, and deeply nourishing—based on your longings, limits, and gifts.

Class 7: NYC Location

Pillars of BDSM Play — Humiliation, Control, Pain, Archetypes

Learn How to Play with the Personalites of Kink in a way the explores your unique blueprint

TBD

Why do we repeat patterns that ultimately wound us? Why do we unconsciously sabotage what we want most? This immersive workshop unpacks the deeper logic behind your most confusing erotic and BDSM patterns—revealing how shame, resistance, fantasy, and pain often carry the raw material of your deepest desires.

Through somatic ritual, guided breathwork, kink-inspired movement, and shadow integration, you’ll learn to stop fighting your desires and start listening to them. Not to perform or fix yourself—but to feel more, want more honestly, and reclaim the parts of you that still ache to be loved.

Come curious. Come messy. Come as you are.

Class 9: NYC Location

Eros and Kink in Everyday Life

Living your erotic truth

TBD

This closing class helps you bring the wisdom of your erotic journey into all areas of your life. From relationships to creativity to daily presence, you’ll learn to stay connected to eros as a compass for living fully and authentically.

Join Our Inclusive Kink Community

In Viktoria Sway’s BDSM classes, you’re more than a student. You’ll connect with a community of fellow kinksters who share your interests. Exchange stories, gain knowledge, and support one another in an environment that embraces curiosity and diversity in the BDSM lifestyle. Join us to get up to date releases of new classes and workshops as they are added. 

FAQ

Your Questions Answered

Understanding BDSM can be both exciting and a bit overwhelming. To help you navigate this journey, we’ve gathered a set of FAQs covering our classes, safety tips, and what to expect. Whether you’re just starting out or want to learn more, our resources are here for you.

What should I wear to class?

Wear something comfortable that lets you move freely and shows off your style. It’s a great chance to embrace your kink vibes!

Are classes suitable for beginners?

Yes! Our classes are welcoming to everyone, no matter your experience level. It’s never too early or late to start exploring BDSM.

How do I ensure a safe experience?

Safety is essential. Our workshops focus on clear communication, understanding risks, and setting boundaries. Together, we create a safe environment for exploration.

Can I bring a partner to class?

Sure! We welcome partners or friends. Just let us know ahead of time if you’re coming as a duo, and we’ll customize your experience.

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