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Shoe Fetish and Worship

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Reasons for Shoe Fetish

Shoe Fetish: There are many reasons you find your mind drifting off to shoe land and lusting after all the shoes tempting you throughout your days. 

  1. Aesthetic Appreciation: Some people are attracted to the visual appeal of shoes. Different styles, colors, and materials can evoke different feelings. The changes in the body when wearing particular shoes enhance curves and lines. 
  2. Physical Sensation: The touch or feel of the shoe can also be a source of arousal. This could involve the sensation of wearing the shoe, touching it, or feeling it against the skin. The feeling of the heel as it presses into your body… or the sensations of fear that it might puncture your skin. 
  3. Symbolic Meaning: Shoes can hold symbolic meanings contributing to their fetish appeal. For instance, they can represent femininity, power, or other attributes that an individual finds sexually exciting. For some, high-heeled shoes or boots symbolize power or dominance, thus contributing to their sexual appeal.
  4. Objectified Lust: Shoes can act as a symbol of lust. This means that they can be seen as objects of desire separate from their wearers, allowing individuals to project their fantasies onto them.
  5. Obsession and Collection: For some, the desire to own and collect different types of shoes can be part of the fetish. This may involve buying new pairs, admiring them, and feeling pleasure from the act of possession.
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Shoe and the Power Play

How do shoes emphasize and build a sense of power?

  1. Height: High-heeled shoes, in particular, can make the wearer taller, often associated with power and authority. This can boost the wearer’s confidence and presence as the Dominatrix peers over you. 
  2. Status Symbol: Certain brands or types of shoes are often seen as status symbols. Wearing them can signal wealth, taste, or being “in the club,” contributing to the perception of power.
  3. Professionalism: In many professional settings, wearing formal shoes signifies seriousness and commitment. These shoes can lend an air of authority and respectability. FemDom practitioners wear professional shoes to lay the groundwork for a Boss Lady scene.
  4. Style and Personality Expression: Shoes allow individuals to express their style and personality. A unique or bold choice of footwear can reflect a powerful, confident personality.
  5. Gender Roles and Sexuality: In some contexts, high heels can symbolize femininity and sexual power. They can accentuate the physical features of the wearer, drawing attention and asserting a form of control.
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Luxury Shoes

Most Common Festishized Brands of Shoes: 

  1. Balenciaga: This brand has been linked to sneaker fetishism and has even released shoes with a “fetish-style” design.
  2. Christian Louboutin: Known for their signature red soles, Louboutin shoes are a status symbol and have been described as “shoes that shout sex”.
  3. Vivienne Westwood: The innovative and extreme footwear designs of Vivienne Westwood have made them a favorite among specific fetish communities.
  4. Doc Martens: The brand’s sturdy, lace-up boots became popular during the 1970s among counterculture circles, punks, activists, and the LGBTQ+ community. Their robust design gave off aura of strength and defiance, making them a favored choice.
  5. Pleaser Shoes: Pleaser offers a wide range of shoes that have found popularity not only among pole dancers but also within the BDSM and fetish communities. The brand’s diverse styles also allow for individual expression and personal preference. 

The list could go on and on…

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Shoe Fetish

Do you derive sexual satisfaction or become aroused from shoes? This can include a wide range of activities, such as admiring shoes, touching or smelling them, or imagining them in sexual situations. Shoe fetish sessions are a display of high drama and teasing at the fetishist’s expense.

Psychology of Shoe Worship

This fetish is thought to originate from a form of classical conditioning, where an object or situation becomes sexually arousing through an association with a sexual experience or desire. In the case of shoes, they could become associated with sexuality due to their proximity to the body, their role in enhancing attractiveness (such as high-heeled shoes often being associated with femininity and sex appeal), or specific personal experiences.

However, it’s important to note that different individuals may have various reasons for a shoe fetish, and it can vary significantly in intensity and expression. As a Dominatrix learns your buttons, she explores your shoe fetish with skill and creativity. Just as with any other fetish or kink, your obsession with shoes deserves to be explored luxuriously.

Popular Shoes

Some popular types of shoes found in the kinky scene: 

  1. Ballet High Heels: These shoes are characterized by their extreme arch, mimicking the foot’s position when on pointe in ballet. They’re often associated with BDSM and fetish subcultures, commonly worn by submissive women.
  2. Platform Stilettos: These shoes have high, thin heels and an elevated platform under the toes. They can create a powerful, dominant appearance.
  3. Peep Toe Mules: These open-toed shoes lack a strap around the heel or ankle. They can be seen as suggestive due to the exposed toes.
  4. Thigh-High Boots: Often associated with boot fetishism, these boots can symbolize power and dominance due to their coverage and height.
  5. Well-Worn High Heels: Some individuals are attracted to the signs of use and wear on shoes, which can add a personal element to the fetish.
  6. Ultra High Heel Boots: These boots have incredibly high heels and can be associated with BDSM and fetish culture due to their dramatic and commanding appearance.
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