Welcome.

I'm so glad you put your pleasure in my hands.

Thank you for scheduling with me. Please take the time to read this letter carefully — it helps me prepare an experience tailored to your tastes and covers the measures that keep us both happy and safe.

Session Questionnaire

If anything has changed since you first submitted, you're welcome to submit the session request form again with updated information.

In Preparation for Play

Special requests for clothing and make-up may be accommodated at my discretion, unless you have purchased specific items for me to wear for our session. My height makes off-the-rack purchases tricky — let me know what you have in mind and we can collaborate on the look you want.

If Toys Interest You

After years in the medical industry I am a stickler for health safety. I recommend that you purchase your own toys that will be exposed to fluids — particularly ball gags, cages, and dildos. For those of you who see me at my in-call location, I'm happy to keep anything you purchase here in your own labeled bin. I will clean and disinfect your toys after each use and they will stay in your bin until next time.

I do have my own collection and some travel with me. I disinfect and sterilize as possible and cover surfaces with protection when I can, but mine are used at your own risk.

As the Time Arrives

I will send a confirmation message the day before your appointment. If I don't hear back from you, I will assume you are not coming, fill the time slot, and report you as a time waster on the boards. You will need to compensate me for lost time to remain in my good graces. If you do not hear from me, check your spam folder — then contact me.

The confirmation email will contain the near location. One hour before the session I will send the exact address. Once you reach that spot, send me a message and I'll get you the rest of the way in.

If you are going to be late, communicate that with me. If you are in a reserved space, I do not have flexibility after 15 minutes — I will assume you are a no-show and you will need to compensate me for my time. I typically have things scheduled around your session and cannot always accommodate you.

Cancellation Policy

With 48 hours' notice, I offer the opportunity to reschedule once if something comes up. Any fees I have incurred to rent space for your session will be lost. Deposits will be forwarded to a future session (once), or lost if you are unable to reschedule.

If you need to reschedule after 48 hours, you will owe 50% of the session cost. After 12 hours, 100%. If you do not honor this agreement, I will blacklist you on 3 boards.

If I need to cancel or reschedule for any reason, I will refund all fees you have paid.

Anal Play

If anal play is on the agenda, I expect that you will clean yourself with an enema. If you don't use one, I will know — you don't want that.

Complete this on your own within 1 hour of arrival.
Add 30 minutes to your session to do this at my in-call. I will provide the supplies. $25 fee.
I will instruct and walk you through the process. 30 minutes added, $100 fee.

Enema time must be requested at least 24 hours prior to your session.

Power Exchange Sessions

For those of you seeing me for submissive training or power exchange sessions, you must follow the protocols outlined here. Please review them before we meet.

Arrival

Session fees should be placed on the table as you enter, in plain sight. No changes to service level may be made during the session. I do not negotiate or discuss rates or services at the appointment — if you bring it up, you will be asked to leave immediately.

The Scene

The part you've been waiting for. You are in my hands now. Sit back, relax, and enjoy.

A bottle of champagne, wine, or a glass of spirits to share is acceptable for light sessions. Intoxication for heavy BDSM is never appropriate.

A few things I really dislike

To most of you this will seem obvious. Some of you need things spelled out.

I plan 10 minutes at the beginning for your shower, conversation, and scene negotiation, and 10–15 minutes at the end for aftercare and a shower if you want one. This is within the time you book — keep it in mind when selecting your session length. Let me know if you'd like more time allocated to either.
Do not try to dominate me. Some of you switches may be tempted. Don't.
Do not play rough with me. I don't enjoy it. I am very sensitive and responsive — while I may choose to be more primal with you, this is not something I enjoy for myself.
There is a shower available. I expect you to be very clean — please use it and the soap if you have worked up any kind of nervous sweat.
Do not spit on me. I have plenty of oils and lotions.
Do not stick anything in my ass. I'm serious — no, you can't convince me I like it.
No gum. I don't want to see it, hear it, or smell it.

General Guidelines

Health, safety, and your happiness are a priority.

I expect you to clearly communicate your needs to me, as I will to you.
I expect you to follow the rules and guidelines I give you.
I expect you to be sober and drug free.
I expect you to be polite and respectful.
I expect you to be clean and have excellent hygiene.
I will verify your identity — this may take some time depending on your references. I will provide you with assurances within my abilities.

Safe Words

Green I love it. (I can usually tell, so this isn't needed unless you feel compelled.)
Yellow Getting close to my edge — proceed with caution.
Red Stop right now.

If you want a change in pressure, pace, or intensity, feel free to give a little direction. More or less works fine.