In 2026, I’ll be running a series of classes and live containers for people who don’t just want scenes, but want to understand their desire, wiring, and patterns in a deeper way. Think: structured teaching + live Q&A + practical exercises you can actually bring into your relationships and your play.
Offerings will be NYC in-person, and key classes will also have online versions, so you can join from wherever you are.
Watch for the in Jan and Feb 2026
Wake the Erotic Animal – reconnecting with desire, aliveness, and appetite without shame
FemDom Foundations – what FemDom actually is (beyond porn), why it works the way it does, core archetypes, “where do I fit in this world?” and how to shape scenes that make you genuinely melt instead of just going through the motions
EdgePlay: Why Our Dirtiest, Scariest Thoughts Excite Us So Much – a guided dive into taboo and edgeplay: why those “too much” fantasies show up, what they’re doing for your psyche and nervous system, and how to approach them in ways that are hot, ethical, and actually resourcing instead of retraumatizing
Kinky Chemistry – archetypes, polarity, and learning to be the partner people love to play with
If you want first access follow the link below and submit your interest on my website!
Every client has to decide:
Do I want FemDom — to be led, to be surprised, to experience another human in their full power?
Or am I secretly here to chase one specific fantasy ending and call it “submission”?
On one side, there’s the rigid script: “Say this, then do that, then I kneel here.”
On the other side, there’s “do whatever you want” — which sounds like deep surrender but is often a way of ducking your own desire. You hand me all the responsibility for knowing who you are and what you want, and that usually ends in generic play and quiet disappointment for both of us.
In this month’s FemDom Lab, I write about how I actually work with your fantasies: as raw material I may twist, slow down, deny, or reshape — not as a script I’m hired to recite, and not as a blank “whatever” either. If you’ve ever brought a very specific fantasy to a Domme (or said “do whatever you want”) and left disappointed, you’ll want to read this.
→ Read the article: “Fantasy vs. FemDom: How I Actually Play With Your Desires”
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How to Support My Work (Even If You’re Not Booking)
If you’re not in a place to book, but you want this work to keep existing, here are a few quiet ways to help:
Always like, comment (with more than emojis), save, and share my content.
Bonus if you do that within one hour of me posting.
Repost my content.
Support doesn’t always look like tribute or a session. Sometimes it looks like helping the work find the people who are secretly starving for it.
Instagram has been quietly burying some of my posts, just because I talk honestly about BDSM, power, and psychology. No nudity, no graphic content — the language alone is enough to limit reach.
So I’ve created a more algorithm-friendly account: @viktoria.sway.nyc — presence, psychology, NYC life, and language the feed can digest more easily. My other space will continue to speak about BDSM and erotic power in less shrouded words.
Softening the language isn’t the same as softening the truth. On both accounts, I’m talking about the same core things: presence, power, desire, shame, and pattern-breaking. One is wrapped more in NYC lifestyle and psychological language; the other names erotic dynamics more directly.
Follow @viktoria.sway.nyc if you want a version of this conversation that fits comfortably in the daytime feed and is still fully, recognizably me.
Feel the strong pull of FemDom in your Entire Being
A rare chance to work with me at a discounted rate as I fine-tune sessions designed to deepen your grounding, presence, and capacity under erotic pressure.
These are not just “fun activities.” Think of them as nervous system training for how you hold yourself when things get intense — in kink, in sex, and in the rest of your life.
Choose your focus:
October was the last show of the season (and here’s why that matters). Riding demands timing, presence, and clear pressure-and-release — the same muscles I use in session. In the ring, I’m constantly reading energy, adjusting cues, and trusting my body. That skill set doesn’t stay in the arena; it comes with me into every container I hold.
If you’re in the mood to spoil your Domme, I’ve made it easy: Gifts for Me You can send something directly from my Amazon or Throne wish lists. It’s a simple way to say “thank you” and keep my world a little more lush. See links below. Gift Certificates for You (or Someone You Spoil)
I’m also offering a limited number of 2026 session gift certificates at 10% off. These can be used toward a session or a longer container next year — a way of saying, “I’m investing in this part of myself,” before the year even begins. Intro form and verification are REQUIRED for sessions.
→ Get a 2026 Gift Certificate: email domina@viktoriasway.com
Tampa & Dallas Late 2025 or Early 2026
I have people in both places waiting to book!
Dates may shift as I build around real humans, not guesses — which means if you might want a session, now is the moment to say so.
If you’re in Tampa or Dallas and want to be considered when I set dates, send your information via my website.
The more clearly I feel the interest, the quicker I get there!
