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Prostate Massage and Strap-On Play:
Prostate massage, sometimes referred to as “P-spot” stimulation, is another layer that can be introduced into strap-on play, especially in scenarios where the receiving partner is male. The prostate, a small gland located a few inches inside the anus, is a powerhouse of pleasure when stimulated correctly. Using a strap-on dildo designed with a curve to reach the prostate can provide intense sensations and potentially lead to a prostate orgasm, a type of climax described as being more profound and more spread throughout the body compared to a traditional orgasm. It’s essential to note prostate stimulation might not be for everyone. Still, open communication, patience, and lots of lube can add an exciting dimension to your strap-on play. As always, consent, safety, and comfort should be prioritized.
After the Scene:
Both partners must debrief after the scene, regardless of how long they’ve engaged in strap-on play. BDSM scenes are emotionally and physically intense; expressing how you feel and discussing what you liked and disliked about the scene is essential. It’s also important to remember that it is expected to feel a sense of vulnerability, and even aftercare needs more when using strap-ons. Do what you need to reconnect, whether it’s cuddling, having a glass of water, taking a shower, or possibly communicating to ensure each person feels safe and loved; that’s the point of BDSM – connection and creating memorable moments.
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Strap-on play, while relatively taboo, is becoming more mainstream, and it can be enjoyable when done safely and consensually. Strap-on play adds a particular spice to BDSM scenes, allowing both partners to explore their dominant and submissive sides. Take your time, communicate your needs, and engage in aftercare after the scene to ensure everyone feels safe, loved, and respected. Exploring your desires, setting boundaries, and gaining knowledge on various kinks like strap-on play, BDSM, or other similar kinks will lead to a more fulfilling sexual experience. Being respectful of your partner, mindful of boundaries, and informed and aware of possible risks will make a strap-on scene fun, rewarding, and unforgettable.
Power Dynamics in Strap on BDSM Scenes
For many people in the kink community, strap-on play is a staple during BDSM scenes. However, it can feel intimidating and overwhelming for those new to this type of play. This blog post will explore the world of strap-on play, discussing the power dynamics involved and what both partners can expect during a scene. Anal play has become increasingly popular in both the BDSM world and the broader world of sexuality, especially as more people are exploring their dominant and submissive sides. By learning more about strap-on play and how it fits into BDSM scenes, you can gain a deeper understanding of your desires, identify boundaries, and ultimately engage in a more fulfilling sexual experience.
What is strap-on play?
Primarily, strap-on play involves one partner wearing a strap-on dildo and penetrating their partner anally or vaginally. The goal of this act is not necessarily to simulate heteronormative sex but instead to explore the power dynamics at play. It is usually associated with BDSM scenes where one partner takes on a dominant role and the other a submissive one. Of course, like any other kink, it can be enjoyed in a variety of ways, including during solo or partnered play. Strap-on play is a flexible kink that anyone can want; it is not solely restricted to the kink community.
Preparing for Anal Play
It’s vital to communicate fully with your partner before beginning any BDSM scene; it’s essential, particularly with strap-on scenes. Before starting a strap-on scene, make sure both partners are on board and that they’ve agreed on safer sex and any particular measures to take. Sanitation, barriers, and regular genital health and STI testing are just as crucial in a strap-on scene as with any other kink or vanilla play. Cleansing with an enema is recommend to ensure cleanliness during play.
Start off slowly when using a a strap on, particularly if you’re new to this kink. Use a small dildo for starters, or with more experience, try out a bigger one. Don’t forget to use lots of lube to aid penetration, and go slow and easy, especially at the start.
