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Read each option like it’s happening now. Pick the one that gives you a small body “yes”—exhale, warmth, a pull forward, “mm,” or relief. If two hit, choose the stronger one.
Stop guessing what “should” turn you on. This quiz gives you a clear, practical map of what actually creates chemistry for you—so you can name it, ask for it, and build it on purpose.
You’ll get your BDSM Blueprint across four dimensions:
How you like power to move in a scene: Led, Leading, or Switch (you can enjoy either lane—one lane per scene).
How your charge builds:
Anticipation (pacing, delay, “not yet”)
Friction (testing, push–pull inside clear limits)
Direct Intensity (decisive start, steady escalation, clean finish)
What the scene means and how it feels:
Play (mischief, teasing, shared game)
Devotion / Ritual (focus, intention, deliberate opening/closing)
Edge / Taboo (dirty, wrong, or over the top—inside consent and clear limits)
Your personal payoff details—the “yes, that” ingredients that make a scene feel like yours. You’ll see your strongest markers clearly.inside consent and clear limits)
Your Blueprint results as percentages (easy to read, no confusing scoring)
A simple way to spot your primary lane vs a blend
A short starter script you can use to ask for what you want
Get your BDSM Blueprint now—then use it to build chemistry with clarity.
Most people can name a turn-on—but they can’t turn it into a scene that actually lands. They default to generic scripts (“be dominant,” “be rough,” “be more submissive”) and the vibe goes sideways: pacing is off, the dynamic slips, or the “right” activity feels wrong in the moment.
Chemistry isn’t just what you do—it’s how you do it: how power moves, how tension builds, what the tone means, and which details make your body say “yes, that.”
This BDSM quiz gives you a clear Blueprint you can share with a partner: what to emphasize, what to avoid, and how to set a scene up so it feels hot, clean, and intentional from the start.
Less guessing, more repeatable chemistry
Clear language for negotiation and consent
A simple map you can use to build scenes on purpose
Next step: turn your results into something you can use.
Your BDSM Blueprint is a map—but most people still get stuck translating it into real-life communication, consent-forward structure, and a scene that actually lands. In my classes, you’ll learn how to use your Blueprint to choose the right tone, build tension cleanly, and ask for what you want with confidence.
→ See classes & upcoming dates
Want guided help turning your Blueprint into real chemistry? Explore my classes → Classes
Read each option like it’s happening now. Pick the one that gives you a small body “yes”—exhale, warmth, a pull forward, “mm,” or relief. If two hit, choose the stronger one.
Stop guessing what “should” turn you on. This quiz gives you a clear, practical map of what actually creates chemistry for you—so you can name it, ask for it, and build it on purpose.
You’ll get your BDSM Blueprint across four dimensions:
How you like power to move in a scene: Led, Leading, or Switch (you can enjoy either lane—one lane per scene).
How your charge builds:
Anticipation (pacing, delay, “not yet”)
Friction (testing, push–pull inside clear limits)
Direct Intensity (decisive start, steady escalation, clean finish)
What the scene means and how it feels:
Play (mischief, teasing, shared game)
Devotion / Ritual (focus, intention, deliberate opening/closing)
Edge / Taboo (dirty, wrong, or over the top—inside consent and clear limits)
Your personal payoff details—the “yes, that” ingredients that make a scene feel like yours. You’ll see your strongest markers clearly.inside consent and clear limits)
Your Blueprint results as percentages
A simple way to spot Dominant/Submissive or Switch
A short starter script you can use to ask for what you want
Get your BDSM Blueprint now—then use it to build chemistry with clarity.
Most people can name a turn-on—but they can’t turn it into a scene that actually lands. They default to generic scripts (“be dominant,” “be rough,” “be more submissive”) and the vibe goes sideways: pacing is off, the dynamic slips, or the “right” activity feels wrong in the moment.
Chemistry isn’t just what you do—it’s how you do it: how power moves, how tension builds, what the tone means, and which details make your body say “yes, that.”
This BDSM quiz gives you a clear Blueprint you can share with a partner: what to emphasize, what to avoid, and how to set a scene up so it feels hot, clean, and intentional from the start.
Less guessing, more repeatable chemistry
Clear language for negotiation and consent
A simple map you can use to build scenes on purpose
Next step: turn your results into something you can use.
Your BDSM Blueprint is a map—but most people still get stuck translating it into real-life communication, consent-forward structure, and a scene that actually lands. In my classes, you’ll learn how to use your Blueprint to choose the right tone, build tension cleanly, and ask for what you want with confidence.
→ See classes & upcoming dates
